I am spending a week in my home country, which is nice. And you should see the light in Provence! Priceless. On the train to Paris, we were sitting next to a group of friends. They didn’t understand why everybody kept addressing them in English. What was it that was giving away their nationality? They were baffled. They had hidden all British newspapers, and spoke good French. Impressive, right? I couldn’t help being amused. It was obvious that they were not French, if you ask me. Why? Well, should you want to try your luck and pretend you are French, there are things that we French wouldn’t do. But fear not: I have written a short list for you. In fact, the group of friends was breaching at least three of these cardinal rules (I will let you guess which ones. Hint: it shouldn’t be too difficult!)…
I don’t know how women can work in this country. Right now, I can’t seem to be able to get anything done. This is because my daughters are on holidays for the next three weeks. Yep, you read this right. As much as I love them, I need a break. The thing is, because I happen to be an expat, I have no family in London to help me. To make matters even worse, because of my husband’s job, I have implicitly landed the job of sole carer of the kids. My guess is that I am not the only woman in such a situation. As a result, the only way to get some elusive me-time is to find a babysitter for a couple of hours. Once again, it is easier said than done. So here is today’s deal: I am going to travel from the comfort of my own home. I am going to list my dream top 3 travel bucket list destinations. Dreaming can’t hurt, right? And we will dream about such magical places together. Because dreaming about them is all I can do anyway. So bear with me, and enjoy the journey:
I want to see the Northern Lights. It started with a visit to the Norwegian church in London a few weeks ago, and I have been thinking about the Northern lights ever since. I want the whole experience: the glistening white landscapes, the fairy-tale ice hotels and the romantic husky-sled rides. And of course, I want to see the sky ablaze with a green, swirly light. I want to witness an aurora borealis. That said, above all, I want some peace and quiet. No tantrums, no noise, just the sound of the wind and the biting cold. I know that seeing the green skies cannot be guaranteed. But I must admit that I want to give it a try. It is an experience.
It is the small things that matter, right? When I was living in Paris, I remember seeing this painting on a building wall. It usually was at the end of my day of work. I was insanely happy to go home. And for me this was what happiness looked like. I am glad I took a picture of it, because I can’t remember exactly where it was. Well, I thought I did, but somehow I couldn’t find it again last time I was in Paris. Maybe the owners of the building were not too pleased about it and removed it. Seriously, what a shame! Miss Tic used to paint all over Paris walls. It was always about ageless sexy dark-haired women, with a line poetry and a wordplay. I used to believe that it was like a treasure hunt. You took a right turn and Voila! the painting was in front of you.
|Miss Tic, Paris XIII|
I had an unusual weekend. You see, I needed a break but couldn’t travel (because of children, work, responsibilities and all this. I know, all very boring, right?). I shouldn’t have worried. After all, this is London. What to do? Deborah of Shared-City had the perfect solution for me. I spend most of my Sunday with the Norwegian and the Finnish communities. Without living London. Yep, you read this right.
Let me explain: we met at 10.30 am at Rotherhithe station. I didn’t know it, but Rotherhithe has a long history as a port. This is because, after the London fire in 1666, timber was exported from the Nordic countries to rebuild the city. As a result, there is a Norwegian church, as well as a Finnish one, near Rotherhithe. They are not on their original sites, obviously, but have remained there. I must shamefully admit that despite having lived in London for more than a decade, this is a side of London that I didn’t even know existed. And to make matters even worse, I shop at Decathlon in Canada Water regularly, which is literally a five minutes walk from where I was yesterday. So much for thinking that I was a Londoner.
Today I would like to talk to you about a little bag usually favoured by men, where you have just enough space to put what you need for an overnight stay. We French call it a ‘baise-en-ville’. Literally, it means ‘f***-in-town’, but funnily enough, it is not rude at all to talk about a ‘baise-en-ville’. Everybody has one, and it is always a smart buy (also for a woman, actually). I suppose that it stems from the fact that we French like to compartmentalise our lives, and remain pragmatic in all circumstances. Hence the bag. That said, it has completely lost any naughty connotation. I assure you. Hand on heart. You can safely talk about a ‘baise-en-ville’ and everybody will be impressed.
It must be something in the air of the Gold Coast. I can’t put my finger on it. But over here, I don’t feel ashamed of anything. Everybody is in shorts and flip flops. I am of course no exception, which is unusual: I don’t like showing too much flesh.
That’s it, we are at the airport lounge, waiting to board. It feels a bit like the summer hols, except that it is Christmas.